Repost: GUEST POST: Three Types of Rules, Three Types of Dominants?

I found the writers thoughts to be thought provoking and therefore I thought I would reblog this article I found yesterday.  Reblogged from here

Three Types of Rules, Three Types of Dominant?

When I consider rules in the context of a BDSM relationship, I generally sort them into three categories: Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Twenty Eight

Ohhhh my type of cupcakes, pretty please Daddy

Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that. Continue reading

30 Day Of Submission: Day Fifteen

It is one position ex-Sir like me to be in.

Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you and if not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future? Continue reading

Impact Play From a Sub’s Viewpoint

Random Google find this morning

Yesterday Vile discussed impact play and safety in his blog , got me thinking; yes dangerous I know.

I have always wanted someone to do this  me for at least two decades, when I finally found someone who was willing there was another worry that entered my head “What if it is not at all like what I imagine it would be? Or not make me feel the way I should or hope it will?”  I had nearly half my life,  to meet someone who was willing to explore it and for that Daddy will always have a special place in my heart. Continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day Nine

This is one place on my sexual bucket list. Yip I have a rather long one 😉

Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them? Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Eight

I so like having a red bum after a good session with Daddy

Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Seven

hmmm nothing better than over the knee spankings in my opinon.

Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it? Continue reading