Christmas & New Year

I love the shadow & lighting in this picture so much it is now my profile picture on Fetlife

I love the shadow & lighting in this picture so much it is now my profile picture on Fetlife

As I have stated in an early post, my eldest baby was going to be staying with us over Christmas.  I was super excited to have all the kids together over the holiday period. Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Twenty Eight

Ohhhh my type of cupcakes, pretty please Daddy

Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that. Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Nineteen

Ohhh this is so pretty, I would like to wear this sooooooo much!!!!

How socially connected is your submission? Do you look for others to talk to about your submission for support or networking? Do you go to events or connect through another sort of social grouping either in person or online? Continue reading

30 Days Of Submission: Day Ten

Would be honoured to own a proper tea set one day to show of when friends come around for a visit

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission part)? Continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day One

I would like Daddy to do this too me.

I have seen many other blogger’s; both Word Press reader and Google reader, within the BDSM lifestyle do this so I thought I would give it a go.  No idea how this will turn out, but hey I am going to give it a try.

Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label?

Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? Continue reading

Rant: How Many People Are In Our Relationship

(Random Google find)
How I felt sometimes during the week

Daddy and I are older, we tend have bit of luggage of past relationships, children, marriage(s), etc.  We tend to keep our lives separate from our relationship to a large part.  Yes, we still talk to our kids every day and our ex partners; when we have too, but overall we tend to keep them out with our lifestyle.  As neither Daddy and I feel that we would be better for the all and it is a decision that we made really early in our relationship. Continue reading

What Makes A Good Daddy!!!!

Hmmm it is only when we are apart that I can’t, but we make up for when we together.

This was a question posed on one of Fetlife forums and this is what I answered:-

Arms that protect
Lap that you can sit on
Shoulder to lean against
Wisdom to know what is best for their little
Patience of saint when we are struggling
Empathy for our troubles
Fingers to wipe away our tears
Hands that hold
Voice that commands respect, but also whispers that are kind & soothing
Stare that stops you in your tracks
Soft stare that just melts their little’s heart and burns away their tears.
He is our white knight to slay our dragons & demons
He is the one who ensures that I am best that I can be.

My Daddy is all off that and much much more.

I have such huge positive feedback that I thought I would post it here as well.